Many in the pro-life movement are reluctant to make a connection between
contraception and abortion. They insist that
these are two very different acts that there is all the difference in the world
between contraception, which prevents a life from coming to be and abortion, which takes a
life that has already begun.
With some contraceptives there is not only a link with abortion there is an
identity. Some contraceptives are
abortifacients; they work by causing early term abortions.
The IUD seems to prevent a fertilized egg a new little human being
from implanting in the uterine wall. The pill
does not always stop ovulation but sometimes prevents implantation of the growing embryo. And, of course, the new RU 486 pill works
altogether by aborting a new fetus, a new baby. Although
some in the pro-life movement occasional speak out against the contraceptives that are
abortifacients most generally steer clear of the issue of contraception.
This seems to me to be a mistake. I think that we will not make good progress in
creating a society where all new life can be safe, where we truly display a respect for
life, where abortion is a terrible memory rather than a terrible reality until we see that
there are many significant links between contraception and abortion and that we bravely
speak this truth. We need to realize that a
society in which contraceptives are widely used is going to have a very difficult time
keeping free of abortions since the lifestyles and attitudes that contraception fosters
create an alleged "need" for abortion.
Planned Parenthood v. Casey, the recent Supreme Court decision that
confirmed Roe v. Wade, stated, "in some critical respects abortion is of the
same character as the decision to use contraception . . . .
for two decades of economic and social developments, people have organized intimate
relationships and made choices that define their views of themselves and their places in
society, in reliance on the availability of abortion in the event that contraception
should fail."
The Supreme Court decision has made completely unnecessary any efforts to
"expose" what is really behind the attachment of the modern age to abortion. As the Supreme Court candidly states, we need
abortion so that we can continue our contraceptive lifestyles. It is not because contraceptives are ineffective
that a million and half women a year seek abortions as back-ups to failed contraceptives. The "intimate relationships" facilitated
by contraceptives are what make abortions "necessary". "Intimate" here is a euphemism and a
misleading one at that. Here the word
"intimate" means "sexual"; it does not mean "loving and
close." Abortion is most often the
result of sexual relationships in which there is little true intimacy and love, in which
there is no room for a baby, the natural consequence of sexual intercourse. Contraception enables those who are not
prepared to care for babies, to engage in sexual intercourse; when they become pregnant,
they resent the unborn child for intruding itself upon their lives and they turn to the
solution of abortion.
Contraception currently is hailed as the solution to the problems consequent on the
sexual revolution; many believe that better contraceptives and more responsible use of
contraceptives will reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies and abortions and will
prevent to some extent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.
To support the argument that more responsible use of contraceptives would reduce
the number of abortions, some note that most abortions are performed for
"contraceptive purposes". That is,
few abortions are had because a woman has been a victim of rape or incest or because a
pregnancy would endanger her life, or because she expects to have a handicapped or
deformed newborn. Rather, most abortions
are had because men and women who do not want a baby are having sexual intercourse and
facing pregnancies they did not plan for and do not want.
Because their contraceptive failed, or because they failed to use a contraceptive,
they then resort to abortion as a back-up. Many
believe that if we could convince men and women to use contraceptives responsibly we would
reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies and thus the number of abortions. Thirty years
ago this position might have had some plausibility, but not now. We have lived for about thirty years with a
culture permeated with contraceptive use and abortion; no longer can we think that greater
access to contraception will reduce the number of abortions. Rather, wherever contraception is more readily
available the number of unwanted pregnancies and the number of abortions increases
greatly.
The connection between contraception and abortion is primarily this: contraception
facilitates the kind of relationships and even the kind of attitudes and moral characters
that are likely to lead to abortion. The
contraceptive mentality treats sexual intercourse as though it had little natural
connection with babies; it thinks of babies as an "accident" of pregnancy, as an
unwelcome intrusion into a sexual relationship, as a burden. The sexual revolution has no fondness no
room for the connection between sexual intercourse and babies. The sexual revolution simply was not possible
until fairly reliable contraceptives were available.
Far from being a check to the sexual revolution, contraception is the fuel that
facilitated the beginning of the sexual revolution and enables it to continue to rage. In the past, many men and women refrained from
illicit sexual unions simply because they were not prepared for the responsibilities of
parenthood. But once a fairly reliable
contraceptive appeared on the scene, this barrier to sex outside the confines of marriage
fell. The connection between sex and love
also fell quickly; ever since contraception became widely used, there has been much talk
of, acceptance of, and practice of casual sex and recreational sex. The deep meaning that is inherent in sexual
intercourse has been lost sight of; the willingness to engage in sexual intercourse with
another is no longer a result of a deep commitment to another. It no longer bespeaks a willingness to have a
child with another and to have all the consequent entanglements with another that babies
bring. Contraception helps reduce one's
sexual partner to just a sexual object since it renders sexual intercourse to be without
any real commitments. Certainly one can
easily imagine how attractive abortion would be in the face of a contraceptive failure
one has made not commitment to one's sexual partner or exacted one, so how can one
expect one's self or one's sexual partner to take on the responsibility of raising a
child. Some clinics report that up to 50% of
the abortions are of pregnancies that resulted from contraceptive failure.
Furthermore, the casualness with which sexual unions are now entered is accompanied
by a casualness and carelessness in the use of contraceptives. Studies show that the women having abortions are
very knowledgeable about birth control methods; the great majority eighty per cent
are experienced contraceptors but they display carelessness and indifference in
their use of contraception for a variety of reasons.
Contraception has enabled them to enter a sexual relationship or a life style, but
while the relationship or life style continues the contraceptive practice does not
continue..
One researcher reports the reasons why sexually active, contraceptively experienced
women stop contracepting: she observes that some have broken up with their sexual partners
and believe they will no longer need a contraceptive but they find themselves sexually
active anyway. Others dislike the physical
exam required for the pill, or dislike the side-effects of the pill and some are deterred
by what inconvenience or difficulty there is in getting contraceptives. Many unmarried women do not like to think of
themselves as sexually active; using contraceptives conflicts with their preferred
self-image. The failure to use birth control
is a sign that many women are not comfortable with being sexually active. That is, many of the women are engaged in an
activity that, for some reason, they do not wish to admit to themselves.
One researcher, Kristin Luker, a pro-abortion social scientist, in a book entitled Taking
Chances: Abortion and the Decision not to
Contracept attempted to discover why, with contraceptives so widely available, so many
women, virtually all knowledgeable about contraception, had unwanted pregnancies and
abortions. The conclusions of her studies
suggest that it is not simple "carelessness" or "irresponsibility"
that lead women to have abortions, but that frequently the pregnancies that are aborted
are planned or the result of a calculated risk. She
begins by dismissing some of the commonly held views about why women get abortions; she
denies that they are usually had by panic-stricken youngsters or that they are had by
unmarried women who would otherwise have had illegitimate births. She also maintains that statistics do not show
that abortion is an act of final desperation used by poor women and "welfare
mothers" or that abortion is often sought by women who have more children than they
can handle. What she attempts to discern is
what reason women had for not using contraception although they were
contraceptively experienced and knew the risks involved in not using contraception. Luker seeks to substantiate in her study that
"unwanted pregnancy is the end result of an informed decision-making process. That pregnancy occurred anyway, for the women in
this study, is because most of them were attempting to achieve more diffuse goals than
simply preventing pregnancy."
Luker argues that for these women (women who are having non-contracepted sex, but
who are not intending to have babies), using contraceptives has certain "costs"
and getting pregnant has certain "benefits".
The women make a calculation that the benefits of not using contraception and the
benefits of a pregnancy outweigh the risks of getting pregnant and the need to have an
abortion. She concurs that many women prefer
"spontaneous sex" and do not like thinking of themselves as "sexually
active". She notes that some wondered
whether or not they were fertile and thus did not take contraceptives. The "benefits" of a pregnancy for many
women were many; pregnancy proves "that one is a woman", or that one is fertile;
it provides an excuse for "forcing a definition in the relationship"; it forces
a woman's or girl's parents to deal with her"; it is used as a "psychological
organizing technique."
In the end, almost all of the unmarried women Luker interviewed had the option to
marry (and supposedly to complete the pregnancy) but none chose this option. Luker attributes this to unwillingness of women to
get married under such conditions, to the disparity between this kind of marriage and
their fantasy marriage, and to their belief that they were responsible for the pregnancy,
and thus they had no claim on the male's support. One of her examples is of an unmarried
woman who did not like using the pill because it made her gain weight. Coupled with this was her wish to force her
boyfriend to openly admit his relationship with her to his parents who rejected her, and
possibly to force marriage and thus she decided not to use contraception. Upon becoming pregnant, this woman had an
abortion.
Much of this data suggests that there is something deep in our natures that finds
the severing of sexual intercourse from love and commitment and babies to be
unsatisfactory. As we have seen, women are
careless in their use of contraceptives for a variety of reasons, but one reason for their
careless use of contraceptives is precisely their desire to engage in meaningful sexual
activity rather than in meaningless sexual activity.
They want their sexual acts to be more meaningful than a handshake or a meal
shared. They are profoundly uncomfortable
with using contraceptives for what they do to their bodies and for what they do to their
relationships. Often, they desire to have a
more committed relationship with the male with whom they are involved; they get pregnant
to test his love and commitment. But since
the relationship has not been made permanent, since no vows have been taken, they are
profoundly ambivalent about any pregnancy that might occur.
They are very likely to abort a pregnancy they may even have desired. It may sound far-fetched to claim that some women
may in some sense "plan" or "desire" the very pregnancies that they
abort but this analysis is borne out by studies done by pro-abortion sociologists.
Contraception clearly leads to many abortions by those who have sex outside of
marriage. Even within marriage, those who
contracept are more likely to abort than those who do not, especially those who use NFP. It is easy to understand why contraceptors would
be more likely to abort. Those using
contraception who get pregnant unexpectedly, are generally very angry, since they did
everything they could to prevent a pregnancy. The
pregnancy is seen as a crisis. The married
have often planned a life that is not receptive to children and are tempted to abort to
sustain the child-free life they have designed. I
am not, of course, saying that all those who contracept are likely to abort; I am saying
that many more of those who contracept do abort than those who practice natural family
planning.
It should be no surprise that unlike contraceptors, those using methods of natural
family planning are highly unlikely to resort to abortion should an unplanned pregnancy
occur. Some argue that couples using natural
family planning are as closed to having babies as are those that use contraceptives; that
they too wish to engage in "baby-free" sexual intercourse. But the crucial difference is that those using NFP
are not engaging in an act whose nature they wish to thwart; they are keeping to the
principles of sexual responsibility. Their
sexual acts remain as open to procreation as nature permits. They are refraining from sexual intercourse when
they know they may conceive and engaging in sexual intercourse when they are unable to
conceive precisely because of their desire to be responsible about their
child-bearing.
It
should be no surprise that countries that are permeated by contraceptive sex, fight harder
for access to abortion than they do to ensure that all babies can survive both in the womb
and out. It is foolish for pro-lifers to
think that they can avoid the issues of contraception and sexual irresponsibility and be
successful in the fight against abortion. For,
as the Supreme Court stated, abortion is "necessary" for those whose intimate
relationships are based upon contraceptive sex.
Janet Smith is
Associate Professor of Philosophy at the University of Dallas.
Copyright 1993 Janet Smith. All
rights reserved.
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