your homepage interesting reading. I feel lucky, however, not to share your stifling
views, that would have us all believe that sex is an immoral act. I am sure if it was not
necessary to have sex to procreate, you would condemn sex during marriage as well. This is
because you appear to be scared of sex, and the nice feelings that may come with it. I am
not a greedy, immoral, or hedonistic person, but I simply do not belief that my God has
any problem with me being comfortable or feeling pleasure in any way, as long as I am not
harming myself or any other being. I believe this also to be on the proviso that I am able
to go without my own comforts if it is possible to help other people by doing so. You may
call me selfish, unvirtuous or unchaste, but I know that I do right by my God, so I just
thought I would just throw in my own opinion since you have provided the opportunity, and
I have taken my time to read all of your opinions on the subject. I wish you all happy
marriages and happy lives. Kate
I appreciated your e-mail and candid expression of your views. The Good Morals website
presents the scriptural view of sexual morality. Sex outside of marriage is condemned, not
by me, but by the God of the Bible. I am just passing along His views, which were not
known to me before reading the scriptures. I was 33 when I was saved and experienced the
sensations you mentioned many times previously without a marriage bond. However, when I
learned the truth, I turned away from sin.
Sex outside of marriage is fornication. Not only is it irresponsible, but also unclean.
"The flesh wars against the spirit, and the spirit against the flesh . . ." You
cannot serve both God and sin. Soldiers learn self-control. When we serve Jesus, we deny
ourselves and repent of sins of the flesh. "Flee fornication." It is a sin
against your own body.
Kate, I greatly appreciate hearing your thoughts. "God is not mocked. Whatsoever a
man sows, he shall reap. If you sow to the flesh you will reap destruction; if you sow to
the spirit, eternal life."
Choose ye this day whom ye will serve.
I put up this website because this subject is so vital to a person's salvation, and yet
so many are careless or ignorant about these truths.
If you have a boyfriend, marry him or abstain until you reach the altar. There are so
many abortions today because people attempt to defeat what God has joined together: sex
and procreation. Since one goes with the other, then marriage should precede the marital
act. That is for the protection of children, and also incidentally, for women.
P.S. Fornication is not harmless. To lose your soul is the greatest harm you could